Valentine’s Day often sparks debate, doesn’t it? It’s a holiday that people either passionately embrace or completely disregard. While some view it as a manufactured occasion driven by commercial interests, it’s also undeniably an opportunity to express love and appreciation for the people who enrich our lives. And in my opinion, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with celebrating love in any form.
I’ve always believed in celebrating love expansively, and that’s why I appreciate Valentine’s Day. It shouldn’t be confined to just romantic gestures. It’s about acknowledging your closest friends, those family members who truly understand you – celebrating the connections that matter most. It’s time we broadened the scope of this holiday, making it more inclusive, allowing everyone to celebrate the essence of what’s truly important: love, in all its forms.
With that inclusive spirit in mind, I’ve curated a guide to fun Valentine’s Day gifts. Forget the pressure of grand romantic displays. This guide is packed with gifts perfect for your mom, your best friend, or even yourself! Yes, self-love is absolutely valid, and who says you can’t treat yourself to something special on Valentine’s Day? There are no rules – if you want to buy yourself flowers, do it! (Personally, I’m team tulips over roses any day. What’s your flower preference?)
A collage of fun Valentine's Day gift ideas including candles, books, and cozy items, perfect for friends and family
And for those in the NYC area, I’m also sharing some enjoyable activities to experience with partners or friends. And rest assured, these suggestions steer clear of overpriced, underwhelming dinners. Because who has the time or budget for that?
Fun Valentine’s Day Activities in NYC
Outdoor pool at QC NY Spa on Governor's Island, a fun Valentine's Day activity in NYC
People enjoying a photography exhibit at Fotografiska museum in New York City, a unique Valentine's date idea
Stunning sunset view of Manhattan from Summit One Vanderbilt, a memorable Valentine's Day experience
Indulge in a Relaxing Spa Day
One of Governor’s Island’s hidden gems is QC NY spa. Nestled on the island’s edge, it boasts breathtaking views of the Manhattan skyline and New York Harbor. This spa is an ideal sanctuary for pampering and unwinding. Whether you go with your partner or a group of friends, you can luxuriate in various spas, saunas, baths, steam rooms, and heated outdoor pools. They also offer cocktails and light refreshments, and you can enhance your experience with booked massages and facials for extra self-care. This is a fantastic way to spend Valentine’s Day focusing on relaxation and connection.
Explore Art and Culture at a Museum
My husband and I recently enjoyed an evening at Fotografiska, a captivating photography, arts, and culture museum in NYC’s Flatiron District. Housed in a stunning building, Fotografiska stands out because you can take a cocktail or coffee with you as you explore the diverse photography exhibits. For an extra special touch, try to get a reservation at Veronika, their acclaimed and often fully-booked restaurant within the museum. Another noteworthy museum that recently opened is Mercer Labs in Soho. Here, you can immerse yourself in cutting-edge, interactive AI exhibits, offering a truly unique and modern experience. A museum date provides intellectual stimulation and shared discovery, making it a memorable and fun Valentine’s activity.
Elevate Your Perspective with City Views
Consider a nighttime adventure high above the city at The Edge or Summit One Vanderbilt. Imagine witnessing the dazzling Manhattan lights from above. Both locations offer cocktail service, allowing you to sip and savor the spectacular views. These experiences provide a sense of awe and wonder, perfect for a special Valentine’s outing that’s both thrilling and romantic in its own way. Seeing the city from such heights offers a unique perspective and creates lasting memories.
What are Your Valentine’s Day Plans?
Whether you’re planning an elaborate celebration for someone special or prefer a cozy evening at home with true crime documentaries (or, like me, are navigating a spouse who isn’t a fan of the holiday and opting for self-care), I encourage you to reach out to someone you care about and let them know they’re in your thoughts and loved. Often, the smallest gestures have the biggest impact. With everything happening in the world, we could all use more love and support.
Wishing you a very happy and love-filled Valentine’s Day!
